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Happy Valentine’s Day 2019/ Venus-What’s love got to do with it?

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Happy Valentine’s Day! How deep is the love within your heart? Love comes around to most of you at some time in your life. Do you go with the feeling or do you fear it? Some of you dislike yourselves so much that when you think you love you create dissension between you and your partner because you are fearful of commitment or expressing your truth to another. Many say hate is the opposite of love. Nope, Fear is. And once that fear is conquered the love you hide so deeply within can emerge and light up your life.

As this Valentine’s Day comes in the news continues to spew hatred and discontent. How many of you are caught in this energy that destroys your own ability to love unless you jump off the bandwagon. Do you really think that what you feel is love by hating anything? What throws your fear into high gear when you do not get your way? The hate covers up the fear and therefore how does love even play into your life? If someone else loves you fear it and then the hatred shows up. Oh my, a cycle of craziness. Would it not be a grand thing to look within and see what it is that this hate is about? And on a deeper level you are afraid to love and this is about being free within.

I look out there and see so many stating men are at fault. Well, sweet pea if you don’t have men you would not be here. Oh, I know eventually many of you will support the total in the lab creation of humans so men and women have no contact. Yet you go out and celebrate Valentine’s Day pretending to love someone. I feel in this year of 2019 that many have a dislike to loving at all. Is that you? Why would it even matter to me? Because without love what is there?

Through many years I have witnessed this craziness. You dislike this, you dislike that. Why? How do you feel when you feel no love? Do you even know what it feels like to love? When you have gone within and felt the deep pull of you heart and shared it with others that may be love. Or it may be a deep knowing that you are in balance that the world around sings to you. What caused this lack of self-esteem that you have created? And how does love feel to you? I would like to hear from you in the comments or a private message. Thanks.

Venus has much to do with how you love and what attracts you. That is just a start to the love cycle in your chart and when you compare it to another. When I was in college I came home for the weekend not too long before I would graduate and my mother said I need to understand other people. And I looked at her – huh? She went into a deep explanation about to get along in life one must be able to read others so that one can get along and learn to love each other. Ok, Mom, I know you are psychic and I know you do this. No, Janice, you need to read this basic astrology book and understand. Oi vey! So I did eventually and then after I was married she gave me another one that she underlined and added names. EEK! Yep, and it all started way back when and I just cannot get away from it. She saw something I did not at that time. So, as I got married and had children I read and studied and read and studied and in-between all else I read and studied. And to this day I want to throw it away, yet I still do the same. And love showed up once I began to understand myself and others. You do not need to know astrology to love but in my life that helped me get to the fear within so I could attract the love to me.

Looking around the Net I see many ways to check for compatibility between you and your newly found attraction. How does your Venus and Mars stack up with his or hers? Well, that is ok on some level yet I feel that one has to have more than compatibility. What are the Sun signs involved. Very basic it is. Ok, it is a place to start but do you really think that if you base your love life on just the Sun signs that you will find the love of your life? No. In my case when I first met my late husband I knew he and I had some good aspects but his Sun was incompatible with mine and I guess I could have just walked away. I got to know him and saw that we had many things in common including an independent outlook which was a really strong basis for our partnership. Our commitment to each other was real. At times the intense part of the connection became a heated discussion yet the interconnectedness of the energy kept us going. There was a spark that came out when all else disappeared and kept the light glowing. We had to learn and grow and I loved the challenge and he hid from it. That was the issue. Fear on his part at times. I energized him and he supported my endeavors. Love was the commitment to follow through no matter what went on. And our love of humor held the bond intact.

So, what does love have to do with it for you or me or anyone else? Astrology has many ways of telling you what can occur in a relationship. Some believe it, some do not. That is ok. I find that at times I just go with my gut about what is going on in a relationship and by doing so when I look at the chart it supports my feelings. It is not just about the planets that I take into consideration regarding a relationship. There are lots of asteroids, fixed stars and the like which have an effect. Would I follow the general compatibility interpretation? Not really. If that was the case I would never have married my husband since there were a few difficult aspects that stood out. And our basic sun signs were supposedly incompatible along with a volatile aspect between Mars and Pluto.  Astrology to me in my heart and mind gives me clues as to what I do have to work on together and how well I interact on many different levels with a partner. Venus, as I said is a main player, and will give you some kind of basis for how you approach love. Look up your Venus and see what it says about how you love and how your interest loves. If you do not know, then ask me in the comments and I will let you know. Venus is currently in Capricorn. Here are just a few fun tidbits about Venus in the signs:

Venus in Aries – They look for trouble in love. They love to be worshipped. Competitive they are. They love to have their faces touched.  They can be aggressive and want to be number 1.

Venus in Taurus – They are collectors. They love the good life. They love to cuddle more than most. Love pleasure and good food. And they probably marry for security. Dynamic music!

Venus in Gemini – They need good talk then they are hooked. Love to kiss. They like refinement. Can be jealous – more often than not. Likes variety. They like changes in relating.

Venus in Cancer – They so love care and feeding. Dislike ridicule. They love to get regular cards and E cards. Terrified of rejection. Love mementos. Way to heart is through the stomach.

Venus in Leo – Get their attention by laughing at their jokes. Praise is important. Love backrubs. Love lively companions and good cuisine. Act like a millionaire or rock star to get them looking.

Venus in Virgo – You know they love you if they pick on you. They like the together look. Men like the models; women like the workaholics. They want to do it all for you. Love serving you.

Venus in Libra – They love to spoil you. Will do just about anything for you. Forget taking out the trash. Love to do everything together. Easy life they want. Do they love you or trendy friends?

Venus in Scorpio- They dislike aloneness. They love depth and craziness. Love mysteries and secrets. Loyalty is important to them. And do not snoop around in their stuff. Detached at times!

Venus in Sagittarius – Love and romance are a game to them. Adventure calls. You never know what they will do. Magical!. Blurting out the truth. Have a strong code of honor. Love changes.

Venus in Capricorn- If you can act like a chambermaid or a polished executive that is good. Can be mercenary. They are a bit frosty. Love lots of kisses but no one else knows that. Likes to be useful.

Venus in Aquarius- Seems to have to try harder than others. Could be a cold fish. Faithful from habit not heart. Some do not like the romance thing. They show their love in funny ways.

Venus in Pisces – Tell them you love them and do not forget. They see God in you. The best place for Venus. They sacrifice for you. Keep to the ideals and they stay forever. Do not-bye.

How appropriate- As I am writing this post a ladybug landed on my upper back. It tells me to live life fully in the now. We must let go of our fears and go back to our roots, to love. Trust in the universe and have faith so that we get over ourselves, our egos, and allow life to take its course going with the flow. Thank you dear ones for reading and sharing. Keep love in your heart. Wizards Within back on air February 20 2019. Blessings, Until again, Love, Jan

 

 

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FULL MOON in SCORPIO, MAY 14, 2014- Deeply transforming, cleansing and healing the self

If you have to talk about anything now, just stop for a moment before you speak, then it is appropriate. Scorpio and more Scorpio comes into the picture with hidden meanings and deep transformation. Anger may erupt at any time. Stay in the moment. The Malaysian flight 370 continues to hit the news and then they say it now classified. Does that mean they know where it is and don’t want others to know? Or is it they are trying to confuse the masses? So they know where it is; they don’t know where it is. Dance on to the music that the darkness plays. Will the control factors manipulate you to ignore the opportunity to break down, clear out and regenerate your own self in this intensity of the Full Moon. Is there anxiety or dread playing its tune in your life? Are you allowing yourself to be pulled into the soulless culture that has taken over the world? What a marvelous time to just sit back and regroup and watch how things shift out of nowhere.

The FULL MOON in SCORPIO takes place on Wednesday, May 14, 2014 at 3:17pm EDT at 23 degrees 56’. What have you created originally that now comes to completion or is more unified? Scorpio is about mystery and rebirth whereas Taurus has groundedness with the earth and the Sun in Taurus brings us to an action wherever it transits your chart. The Moon in Scorpio speaks of longings and reflection. There is a push/pull type effect between the Sun and Moon looking for balance. Scorpio can be about control issues along with deep passionate responses. Where do you fit into the energy at this time? Something has occurred within. Do you feel like there has been a breakthrough, the door opened if only just an inch? I do. You may not recognize the entire picture because there is still some letting go to happen. The resistance within you is lessening. Do you feel it? Some of you may begin to feel a new freedom. Maybe you find your perspective has shifted and you now see things you never saw before. And believe it or not they were right in front of you. Then again, there may be the last blast from your inner self which gives you the impetus needed to take that leap. I have been speaking of leaping for months and this may, at last, be the time to prepare to start to get moving again.

The forward motion is helped by the continuing Grand Cardinal Cross in Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn which is still in effect as the FULL MOON in Scorpio occurs. Mars and Pluto are in retrograde motion. The Grand Cross and the most recent lunar and solar eclipses have created an opening for the new energy to emerge. Pluto and Uranus at this time are in square (conflict) so the old structures can break down and be replaced by those which are more in tune with our lives. Jupiter is moving away from the Grand Cross but Venus has entered Aries and will be part of the Grand Cross this week. Venus will square Pluto on May 14 and conjunct Uranus on May 15. Venus is all lovey dovey and rules love and abundance, generally speaking, but is a bit blatant at times in Aries. Do you have a power struggle come to the forefront again? When Venus hooks up with Uranus it may bring some surprises or unexpected changes. If you have done the homework and laid the appropriate groundwork then something may shift significantly for you. Some of you may still resist the changes which take place now. The breaking down of old belief structures is paramount to this Full Moon in Scorpio.

The FULL MOON is conjunct Saturn which is also in Scorpio. This kind of aspect makes for depressing conditions if you allow it to surface. It really wants you to get rid of detrimental emotional habits. It will not allow you to say the excuse for my behavior is my family or my past. Not happening. You want to be hiding in your comfort zone and this FULL MOON will out you on this. This Full Moon and Saturn especially is saying no hiding anywhere because it wants you to move those detrimental emotional patterns up to the surface. Then you can deal with them even if you feel uncomfortable for a short time. Oh darn. Just walk through it so you can grow and move on your path in a big way. All those patterns have been snug in your mind from most likely childhood. Time to get rid of them once and for all, don’t you think? Oh, yes, I know many of you are in denial that your emotions are in balance and you are in no need to act upon their appearance. Really? Why do you choose to suppress your feelings? It is time to look within your heart and see what the truth is. Saturn is poking and prodding and could make you feel down and out for a short time. If you refuse to acknowledge what is happening it can get a bit rough. You can do it though. Get to it. Everyone has a dark side and the Full Moon will be illuminating this part of you.

Mars is at 9 degrees Libra and will be moving direct on May 20. This will start to put things in motion but until then who out there is feeling unmotivated? This is due to the inconjunct to Neptune in Pisces. Anyone feeling lethargic? May be time to take a short break and revitalize your spirit. If you can do so, find some quiet time and chill out for now. And I know so many are so busy with their jobs, their families, their homes and you name it. Maybe just slow down for a couple of days and go into retreat. This will help you deal with the emotions which may show up. Mercury is in good aspect to the Mars and Venus so anything lovers may have to talk about will be softened by the messenger. Oh yes, there may even be some laughs. C’mon lighten up already and resolve the differences. What are you failing to say because it may just show up as an angry outburst when Mars goes forward? Keep negotiations to a minimum for a few days after this. Jupiter trine Saturn with the Full Moon whispers in your ear to eat more cake or have some fun with your lover.

Those being affected most intensely have any planets at 18-25 degrees of Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius. Personally, I have Saturn opposing my Sun and conjunct my Jupiter. Saturn is in my 6th house and that indicates lot of organization at work and daily living. Thrilling. It’s also time for me to slow down and go steadily along. And when someone wants to push me quicker I might get cranky. And for me and the rest of you, detox is good at this time and lots of sleep if you have planets affected.

Stay in the moment and smile if nothing else. The pressure is on to cleanse and heal. You can do it. Sending many blessings to you all. Until again. Love, Jan

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FULL MOON in LEO February 7 2012 – Is anyone listening?

Have you noticed the speed of life lately? In a flash it is now February 2012. The FULL MOON in LEO is now upon us a little over 24 hours from now. It appears on February 7, 2012 at 4:54pm EST at 18 deg. 32 min. Sun is in Aquarius with its detachment and cool appearance. The Sun has a logical approach to thinking and is truly about the mind. Of course, the Full Moon being in Leo brings us the dramatic, the warm, the expressive part of the cycle. Leo wants that attention that no one seems to want to give this time around. Leo expresses in a grand manner and loves to feel. Wherever you have the Full Moon in your chart will show you where you need to compromise this time. Do you want it your way fully? Not happening. You need to find the inner balance now. If you choose to be uncooperative, drama strikes. Aquarius Sun is pulling you back to cool approach to life; oh dear me. Leo is definitely saying that there is more to life than just logic. Where is your heart, Aquarius? Leo needs that heart. Leo wants to say something and no one is listening or paying attention. If a blow up occurs, that is the reason. Balance!!!!!!

Lately, the way of the world has been to frown upon emotional communication. Let’s take the love out of life. Who needs it? Let’s all be drones and work nicely in your little cubicles, labs, storefronts. Say nothing except what is necessary. Go to work, think about only what you are told to think and get rid of extraneous communication. NOT going to happen. You and I and many others are starting to see the reality of life on this Planet Earth. Cool, coolness, cold, frozen. Have you become one of those who are caught in the abyss which exudes the dark and dank? Oh, no, I went off track. Not really. This fiery Full Moon in Leo is going to bring about a wakeup call to all those not paying attention. March is soon upon us. What does it matter? The March winds will blow in a major turn of events for some of you. Do you choose that? If it is a positive time, sure do. I frown upon doomsayers, yet I need to say that March may be turning tides.

Relationships at this time of the Full Moon in Leo are in need of compromise especially if there is a decision on the table. There is balance to be had in love, creativity and with children. It is far from one-sided at this time. It is not only about you and what you want or demand. Sorry. It is about others who are also involved. COOPERATIVE EFFORTS! And expression between parties is paramount to resolving anything. What do you choose to do next in your relationships? Where do you intend it to go? You need to find your inner harmony.This Full Moon in Leo marches on to a higher place in your life if you let it take you there. Relationships are beginning to be affected for better or worse.

With Venus going into Aries this week creative exploring comes to the forefront.Also it meets up with Uranus on February 9. Watch out for crazy behavior which may be the breakthrough needed to get through the wall.  Soon things will be very different. This will depend on you and what you choose. Do you find stress within and without? Get rid of it. When was the last time you truly laughed from your authentic self? This full moon will only exacerbate it if you fail to communicate your desires. What are you waiting for? This is a time to have courage. Or do you wish to move on?

Mercury is directly opposite the Full Moon. Ouch.  Here we go. I just noted that you need to have clear communication at this time. Well, dear ones, unless you go beyond the childhood quirks and issues, it will be pretty tough to actualize this due to some confusion that hangs on from those olden times. Also there is the possibility of mixed up thoughts of fantasy and reality. If you have any hidden aspects in your life, trying to cover them up so others never get wind of them, then I suggest you hide yourself in a less accessible place. The ducks are coming off the pond or those skeletons in the closet are coming out of hiding very soon. STOP —STOP playing the victim. If you continue to stoke the fire at this time, the burns will be severe. Play it safe.

Saturn in Libra is now turning stationary retrograde at 29 degrees Libra on the Full Moon day. What exactly does that indicate?  It is a slowing down. This is a time to reassess commitments in business and relationships. The slow down takes place into June 2012. There is a see saw pattern in the Full Moon chart and cooperation and compromise is important as I said in the beginning of the post. Without it, major distancing in relationships and with children can occur. Think before acting. The fixed signs of Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius are affected between 15-21degrees. Stress maximized. Take a deep breath.

Oh, yes, my Sun is squared by the Full Moon. Some challenges come to me regarding those things which have gotten less attention lately. Possibly my authority is challenged and or extra sensitivity on my part. On the other hand, any tensions in relationships can be resolved before they smolder too much. Restlessness appears, some crises, (didn’t this just happen?) and need to communicate or frustration results.

Watch your words around the time of the Full Moon. Cooperate, compromise, reassess. Reach within for the strength needed to harness the great forces that are surrounding you. I pulled the Horse as my meditative tool this time. Horse is about strength. Horse shows you that you have the ability to stand up to those who try to keep you from being your authentic self. Horse will help you prepare to ride into the future to do what you came to do. Call on Horse.

            “Horse spirit please come to me. I thank you for leaving the freedom of the plains behind. To lighten my load with your strong body and helpful way. And take me to far off places faster than I could ever go. You help me learn the ways of others and teach them mine.      You help me jump over all obstacles on my journey. Your selfless service is an inspiration to all beings.” (from Animal Powers Meditation Guidebook)

And please continue to pay attention to avoid misunderstandings. Mercury retrograde comes upon us next month. Thank you for your support. Blessings and love to you all. Until again, Jan

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